Adaptability - adapt and ability "to fit (something, for some purpose)," from Middle French adapter (14c.), from Latin adaptare "adjust," from ad- "to" + aptare "to join," from aptus "fitted" Meaning "to undergo modification so as to fit new circumstances"
Adaptability also implies not giving up! Instead of just walking away or tossing the whole thing out, it involves trying to work with what you've got and who you've got to work with.
Basically you try to fit in, and you make the stones you have fit in too.
You don't have a hissy fit either.